All these guys that are trying to set… well… you know… Remember
Lol… i thought i was the only that noticed
@EjikemeLucky What are you going on about?
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Hey Temi. Another digital marketer here. Welcome!
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I think you should just close this thread before it degenerates into a NL romance thread.
Niggas will soon start dropping BB pin and bio. Just watch!
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Nigga, she didn’t open the thread, looking for a date or shit. She merely introduced herself, and showing her excitement finding the forum. Whatever happens after, is not in her control or business. Its not her fault boys losing sense and going out of character, dropping CVs to impress because of a fine girl. & I think she managed it quite well.
Saying she is taken is her way of stopping more guys from embarrassing themselves, which very likely is true. She is new here, and not right way to treat or talk to a newcomer. Especially since conversations here are 90% male dominated.
A lady comes around, pretty or not, act normal, talk normal so she feels normal and appreciated, like Bankole said. I wonder if all these introductions will flood the thread if it was male.
Now you wonder what other unregistered (pretty) techie girls might think before joining conversations here. That their contributions might just be hijacked or infuenced by their looks.
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Lol,Welcome to radar where every issue is a hit 
Am Kofacts & I Design for Web…
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The gender divide is probably felt most acutely in the technology industry all over the world. The good news is that the industry is becoming increasingly self-aware about the need for tech bros to behave better, and not treat females in the industry differently, whether as inferior players to be taunted and dismissed, or as weird celestial apparitions to be ogled or as geek mating fantasies. In the same breath, increased participation from females will slowly but surely push the testosterone back till one day, when everyone will simply just act normal, whether it’s in a situation like this, or where the stakes are much higher. It just won’t matter.
So, @TemiL. Thank you for joining Radar. Going by the number of likes on your original post, you know that the community welcomes you heartily. About the near-instant objectification that followed, I apologise about that, and I think I speak for other members when I say that it is not indicative of Radar’s general ethos. Everyone…every one…is invited. I look forward to your contributions.
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Hi radar. Am obviously green here. But I need suggestions on what software to use. I intend to have a database for a group I lead which will include bio data and passport photo. Thanks
Lol, very green. Your comment is off-topic. I suggest you take time to read the guidelines, then try again.
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Well, being the first person to post a reply, I want to categorically say I was acting normal and had no intention to objectify @TemiL. All I did was try to create a conversation, be “funny” and welcoming in my own way. Please ask the other guys after my posts what they had in mind.
Cheers
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Hello Binjoadeniran, great to know 
Now the big question, how did you find radar???
I havent had a good laugh in awhile, this was certainly epic.
A Lady walks into the room, says Hi and nobody responds. It’s a problem. She has been ignored because of the industry don’t like Women.
A lady walks into the room, says Hi, everyone responds. It’s a problem too.
So what are we supposed to do?
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Be yourself, for starters.
Flagged!!! Bullocks, but cool though chilling with wasiu ayinda omo wura on the replay.
- Re: this reply. Be less dramatic please.
- Re: what you’re supposed to do, interact with women like they’re people like you and not a recipient of your social awkwardness. Last I checked, other new members weren’t more or less inclined to mention their relationship status.
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Either techie or not, men will always be “women being”.
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